So i run my own instance of 1 user. Ive subscribed to about 30 communities and They have all been pending for days. Only 2 have been marked as subscribed. Is it just an overloaded thing? Ive tried unsub and subscribing again. no luck.
What problems does lemmy solve that a normal forum wont? I would only consider this if its unfederated as if you federate it then you are opening up your communities to the outside. At that point look at forum software as well
How do i check that? Im getting content and my posts and comments go out so i dunno